I was diagnosed as being an Adult Child of An Alcoholic (ACA) and a child of a parent that suffered from Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). I had specific symptoms and after seeing my doctor, I started therapy. After almost two years of therapy, my symptoms were greatly reduced, and my fear was replaced with understanding.
I took notes before, during and after my therapy and I have written a book based on those notes.
I have been an Database Administrator for over 20 years, supporting Oracle databases and more recently, Oracle Fusion Middleware.